How to Date a Latina?
Dating a Latina is a dream for men all over the world! These girls are super passionate, caring, warm wonderful creatures, with whom you will never get bored. They have all the best features a man would hope to see in his woman. Latinas are hot, witty, expressive, and inquisitive, they have high morals and look forward to creating a family.
If you come from a country with reserved cultures like Germany, Austria, or from the Scandinavian countries, you may not share that much with Latinas on an emotional level. But if you are very interested in these girls, you should follow these tips to succeed in dating!
Even if you are from somewhere else, even if you have been exposed to South American and Caribbean culture before, let’s say, if you are from the US, these tips will still be useful for you. Why? Because you probably never gave a thought to why you should or shouldn’t do or say certain things when meeting and dating hot Latin women. But no worries, it’s on us – what you should do is to read on and get ready for putting theory to practice.
Disclaimer: these are generalizations, and they, of course, cannot work for every woman from Latin America, so take them as guidelines, not rules. So, here we will tell you how to date a Latina.
Be ready for hot N cold games
Dating a Latina isn’t an easy thing. Especially, when it’s the beginning of your interaction. Many Latin girls, especially those from Argentina, would test you to see how much you are interested in them and ready to be invested. They will seem to be all into you, and then out of a sudden, they will stop responding to your messages promptly, find excuses not to go out with you, and so on. Sure, then they will get back to you, and you will see many circles of this hot N cold games before you finally get committed.
So a tip for you: don’t give up easily. If you give up – you lose. Latinas look for assertive men, gentlemen who would fight for them. They are the best and they need the best partners!
Chivalry isn’t dead
Some things differ from culture to culture but not chivalry. Latinas will expect you to open doors for them, pulling out a chair, paying in restaurants. These girls are passionate lovers and they need someone as romantic as they are.
Keep in mind those sweet little things
You do not have to go out of your way to impress a Latina. All you need to do is to charm her with your attention. Little things like flowers here and there, buying her fruits or chocolates that she loves, complimenting her are the best ways to stand out from the crowd of other interested guys.
Leave alone cheesy Spanish phrases
If you spent a few weeks on Cuba beaches or in a Mexico all-inclusive resort and have grabbed some Spanish phrases, do not practice it on her. She will hate it. Also, do not say anything to her that you heard guys singing about in Latin pop and reggaeton songs. Remember, she isn’t your «mami» or «mamacita», and she isn’t «caliente» for you. Just saying.
Make the first move, always
As we have said before, Latinas look for men who could be partners for them, with whom they could establish a family. They are looking for leaders, men who wouldn’t be afraid of taking on responsibility. Therefore, take the lead and always make the first step. Do you like her? Approach her. Do you want a date with her? Invite. Do you want to spend more time with her as she has charmed you? Plan the dates or couple activities. It’s on you, man.
Put some thought into it
When dating a Latina, you will have to be thoughtful. What to wear, what to say, where to go, etc. It seems very obvious but sorry, we do have to say it. Basic things like neat nails, good fragrance, clean and ironed clothes will give you bonuses in the eyes of a Latina. You do not need branded clothes or an expensive watch to make her interested. You need to be yourself, but a bit more considerate.
You have to dance, man
Yes, there’s no way out. Even if you can’t dance, it’s not like you should – you have to try! Of course, 99% possibility she will dance way better than you, but you have no right to reject her offer to dance with her at a party or elsewhere. Don’t take yourself seriously and just have fun. Latinas love to have fun and they want a partner who would share this joy with them.
Flirtatious doesn’t mean easy
Latinas are flirts. They are touchy, they smile and laugh a lot, they can kiss you on cheeks and hug you often but… it doesn’t mean anything. They just love flirting. If you tell them they do, they will tell you that they are just being friendly! And they are! If a Latina flirts with you, do not expect her to go with you to a bedroom soon (you will see below why), just flirt back. She will like it for sure.
Remember, she has high morals!
That’s the thing. A Latina is not likely to have sex with you soon. She may not even kiss you on the lips after the first, second, or even third date. She will observe you in the meantime. Are you a serious guy? Can she trust you before she opens up her heart? Are you interested in a long-term relationship? You should be because the ultimate goal of dating a Latina is to get married!
Be patient, she will always be late
Hot Latin women follow Latin Standard Time. It means that it is ok to be chill about time and be late. She may be late for dates because she will be putting so much effort into looking gorgeous for you. She may be late for a party because if you invite people to a 9 pm party in Latin America, they will show up not earlier than at 10 pm, so why would she bother coming earlier? Take it easy and have fun just like her.
You have to get along well with her friends… and parents
Friends and family aren’t just a big deal in Latin America – it’s a huge deal! Once the two of you get serious, she will make sure to introduce you to her friends. If you can get along with them, perfect! You’re a match! But there’s another obstacle – her parents.
Latinas are very close to their families, especially mothers. They are beloved daughters and even more like best friends of their mamas. Dating a Latina means dating her entire family. Get ready for all the family weekends, parties, picnics, and so on. If you want to win the heart of a Latina, you will have to win the heart of her parents, which, believe us, won’t be that difficult – Latin people are very warm-hearted and open, you will be accepted with open arms.
Let her cater to you
Latinas are extremely caring. Your morena girlfriend will make sure you are never hungry (yes, she likes cooking and will cook everything for you that she can), that you feel loved and get her attention. All you need to do is relax and accept that love.
Nevertheless, do not think that she will be your mommy and do everything for you. A Latina will expect a degree of self-sufficiency from you, and she doesn’t like it when things are dirty. So you clean up after yourself! Dishes, laundry, etc. She will keep an eye on you.
Be ready to hit the gym
No, it’s not because she would want you to look hotter – if she’s dating you, she already thinks you are hot. You will have to start doing the gym because you will gain weight with her! Latinas adore cooking and they cook so well and so much that you will never be able to reject her delicious things. So yeah, you better work out.
Do not piss her off
Have we already told you that Latinas are passionate? Well, they are also dramatic. A bit of drama here and there, a bit loud, emotional – Latinas are storms of emotions. They can cry because their favorite character almost died in a TV series, the next minute she can become furious if you forgot to do the dishes. And yes, do not ever make a Latina jealous. Unless you want to see the biggest drama scene in your life.
If she’s with you, she likes you. 100%
Do not ever doubt your relationship with a Latina. Don’t think she would choose a Latino guy over you. Do not think that Latino men are hotter than you. If she’s already with you, it means something. Do not hesitate to upgrade your relationship to the next level. Latinas are very affectionate and make the best girlfriends and wives, they will share all the good with you. Dating a Latina is a blessing. Embrace it and cherish it.
Hope these tips were useful. All the best for now!